Last week the Globe ran a teaser on their front page: THE HIDDEN COST OF
PORN; articles about the evils of pornography are always a great way for news outlets to have their cake and eat it too, leaping at the
flimsiest of excuses> for another piece about that nasty, dirty, endlessly fascinating
filth flarn filth.
When I hunted down
the article they were plugging (I guess you could say that their marketing worked pretty well on me), it turned out to be a puff piece on local academic Gail Dines, who's written a book about the Eeeevils of Internet Pornography.
Now, there are a bunch of things the piece says or implies that are perfectly reasonable. Let me state them baldly:
- There exists commercially successful porn that is frankly misogynistic
- That subgenre has grown in the Internet era.
- There exists commercially successful porn in which the female performers are clearly not having a good time.
- Porn is more accessable to young people than it was 20 years ago.
The reason that I'm setting this forth as a bulleted list (apart from a fondness for bulleted lists) is to tease apart these factual statements from the fake syllogisms they appear in in the article.
“Pornography today is not your father’s Playboy,’’ says Dines, 51, a Wheelock College professor of sociology and women’s studies. “It’s hard-core, cruel, and brutal. So you’re bringing up a generation of boys who are more cruel, bored, and desensitized.’’
What's the star of that quote for me? "So." Such a vast claim of a neat causal relationship packed, compactly, into two little letters.
Judging by the article, this is Dines' main issue--the influence of pornography on young men. And, judging by the article, her handling of that influence is not to reason or to cite studies but to assert, as if it were a matter of universal consensus.
Now, many activists on my side of the aisle will oversimplify just as ludicrously in the other direction, asserting that there is no influence of media on the formation of sexual tastes. For me, the most elegant refutation of this position is the large and thriving
superhero bondage fetish community. If there were no superhero comics, there would be no superhero bondage fetishists. Would these folks be fetishizing some similar set of triggers under a different name? Would they have completely unrelated kinks? I have no idea, but clearly their consumption of media had a role in profoundly shaping their sexuality.
This example does another thing, though, which is to demonstrate that the influence of media on sexuality is not confined to seuxally-explicit media, and what will prove to have an effect on an individual's mind (or on many minds in aggregate) is messy and deeply unpredictable.
Apart from all matters of morality, freedom, blah blah blah, that is my essential quarrel with positions like Dines'. Any attempt to control people's sexuality (and this absolutely about controlling people's sexuality--setting boundaries of what it is acceptable for people to be aroused by and what it isn't) by controlling what media they're exposed to strikes me as just exactly as likely to be effective as controlling tornadoes by regulating butterfly flight paths.
Further, it's notable to me that that those who would control the shaping of young sexualities seem always to take a purely subtractive approach. They're not proposing better, cleaner, more wholesome porn to replace the stuff that disgusts them (and is therefore immoral). The notion that there's a
demand for sexually explicit media seems never to have occurred to them. I guess what's going on here is that they believe in the myth of a natural sexuality--the kind that develops, or, rather,
emerges in the absence of any distorting influences. So all you have to do is keep a young person completely isolated from any strong sensory or emotional experiences until his eighteenth birthday, and a correct, mature, undistorted sexuality will spring forth, fully armed, on that date.
I confess to a certain skepticism.